Love is love. Wouldn't any child benefit from the love of two people who have so much love to give?? (new drinking game... take a drink every time I said "love") I hope you all can find your babies out there in this big world and provide a life for them that any little child could only dream of. My husband and I always say that parents who struggled to conceive love their children way more than those who found it so easy. Maybe that's not true, but maybe it is!!